Honest to Guy

Are you one of those guys who needs to drink copious amount of liquor in order to approach a girl you've been checking out at the club? Or just to be able to hit the dancefloor?
And when you finally get the nerve (or get drunk enough) to talk to the girl, do you feel charming and unconquerable? Do you? How many times have you actually succeded in charming the panties off of a woman?

There are a few fatal mistakes that men make when they harass (pick up) women, and I'm here to give you some pin pointers of what NOT to do.
Now, listen good and listen carefully because I say this only once:

• Consuming large amount of alcohol might make the ugliest girl look attractive in your mind, but it does nothing to improve your sexappeal.
• When you see a group of girls on the dancefloor having a great time, do not for a second think that you can just waltz right over and act like you're Travolta. Generally when a group of girls head out to the dancefloor they, believe it or not, just want to dance.
• If a girl smiles at you it does not mean she wants you! That's just the alcohol talking. If a girl is interested in you, trust me, she will let you know!

I could go on and on about what not to do, but basically all I'm trying to say is this: drink less and act more! It's OK to make a fool of yourself, to fail. There's plenty of girl-fish in the sea and some of us actually like insecure guys, because most of us are just that...insecure!

mzS